Spooky Mutant Root Vegetables!

Happy Halloween from my spooooky garden!  The garden was mostly a bust this year, we can just call it a learning experience, I guess.

This is what happens when you dump a bunch of carrot seeds in a small patch and don't thin them properly.  I swear I did thin them, but apparently not enough.

I wonder if this thing let out a blood curdling scream when it was pulled from the ground?  (My husband pulled this out when he was cleaning up the old dead plants and weeds that grew up.)

EWWWW! 

And the other side.  It is hard enough to get kids to eat their vegetables, now they are scarred for life.

What's in Your Mailbox?

Thought I would share with you some of my freebies that have been landing in my mailbox lately.  Most of these are free samples that I sent off for, but there were also some surprises in there, too.  The best was the package of name brand diapers that I got to try out on my twins, sent to me by Pinecone Research, who I do surveys for about once a week.  They paypal me $3 for each short survey.  Then, I did the exact same survey for MyPoints, and they sent me another package of the same diapers!  Bonus!  (Sorry I could not include them in my photos, I am not supposed to talk about my top-secret market research studies!)

This first picture has Crest, Dove, All-Bran and Quaker samples, plus a full sized bottle of Gain dish washing detergent (I believe I "liked" them on Facebook, then acted fast when they posted a giveaway).  I was surprised to see the Toy Story coloring set, it came without any explanation.  But I believe it is from Sara Lee, who had a giveaway this summer for divided plates with the Toy Story theme, I saved bread wrappers and sent away for 2 of them but got a postcard saying that they had run out.  Nice surprise and something to hide away in the gift stash.

In this picture are samples of Nivea lotion, Gax-X (hey, it was free), Teecino tea and Johnsonville Deli-Bites, which came in an envelope with 6 packs of mini summer sausages.  Kinda tasty and the kids like them.

Here is my check for $7 from SurveySavvy.com for doing an online survey, a sample of Wisk detergent (I have actually gotten this one a couple of times), a coupon for a bottle of free Advil and 2 coupons for free tubs of Cottonelle wipes (I had one sent to my mom's address and she gave it back to me).  Not too shabby, I would say!

So, when I am spending too much time on Facebook at least I have a little something to show for it!

Another freebie not shown is my scrapbooking kit of Elmer's and X-Acto products, sent to me by BzzAgent.  The kit included 2 pairs of decorative edge scissors, a corner rounder punch, a glue pen, glue stick, glue spots and something called a tape runner.  Can't wait to use it!

More Budget-Busters I Really Don't Miss (Well, Usually)

My last post was about some household items that I either stopped buying or drastically cut back on to save money and (in some cases) do my little part to save the environment.  This week I have a few more items that I have cut back on or eliminated from our budget.  In some cases it has been a few years since I bought these items, so I have gotten used to life without these luxuries, others I splurge on occasionally and would certainly add back into my life if I wasn't being so cost-conscious (aka "poor").

I challenge you to find the things in your life that you can live without and try to wean yourself from them.  You will notice that I did not put "chocolate" or "coffee" on my list, those are essentials!

1.  Soft Drinks  I drink water now most of the time, except for my morning coffee, which I must have for the caffeine.  I just stopped buying any soft drinks except for an occasional 2-Liter (on sale, of course) to have on hand if people come over (we rarely entertain) or I will drink it if I am at someone else's house and they offer it.  On the rare occasion that we are at a restaurant I usually order water.   The positive aspect for my kids is that they also drink a lot of water and are not addicted to pop, they actually think it is too fizzy or "spicy" as they say.  I used to drink Diet Coke like it was going out of style, then I switched to Sprite during my pregnancy/nursing days, so the gradual weaning wasn't so hard for me.  If I drink a real Coke now it is so sweet (and wonderful, ha ha) it is almost too sweet.

2.  Combo Meals at Fast Food Restaurants  When I worked full time I ate out every single day, at least 5 days a week, and believe me I ate well--not just fast food but sit-down restaurants.  I justified never packing a lunch because I worked such long hours and needed that break at lunchtime.  I wish I had that $50 a week times all those years I worked plus interest now!  We do not eat fast food often but I do get my kids Happy Meals sometimes and get myself a little something from the Value Menus.  You can actually get a lot of food and spend a lot less getting those 99 cent items, especially from Wendy's and Sonic (although I think their chicken strip sandwich is $1.19, still a bargain!) and Taco Bell is better in small doses anyway. :-) Since I am drinking my bottled water anyway and don't want the drink, a hamburger (Wendy's Junior Bacon Cheeseburger = yummy) or chicken sandwich or 99 cent burrito does the trick for me, satisfies my fast food fix and is a nice little treat while I am on the run.  If you pay in change then you really feel like you got a deal.  And there are occasional coupons floating around out there for free items (with or without purchase) so I have gotten additional items that way, like when Taco Bell launched their Fruitista drinks, so that helps justify the splurge.  If you stop eating large combo-type meals and then finally order one again after a while you will be surprised at how much food is actually involved.  And I quickly got over my embarrassment of going through the drive-in and only spending $1.08 total on my lunch and paying in change, who cares anyway?

3.  Newspapers and Magazines  Our newspaper subscription expired this summer and we didn't renew.  I probably would have if they offered us a good deal, but that didn't happen so we just let it stop.  We still get the Sunday paper (husband buys it on his way to work Sundays) because I must have the ads and coupons, but that's it.  My husband used to take it to work with him and so he probably misses it and I do miss the Wednesday grocery ads (that I now read online or sometimes get in the mail) but I don't miss the stacks and stacks of unread papers that we have to take to the recycling bin.  And all my magazines I get for FREE!  I recently started getting "Everyday with Rachael Ray" and "Taste of Home" free after responding to a free deal online (follow Penny Pinchin' Mom on Facebook, she posts these sorts of deals) and I already get "Family Fun" (great ideas for use with kids) and "Natural Health" for free, not that I have time to read any of these magazines, but I do like an occasional new recipe.  "Family Fun" is the only one of these that I would ever actually pay for if I didn't already get it for free.  I do sometimes order the kids books from the Scholastic flyers they bring home, they have cute books for as little as $1 or $3 and they LOVE books.  I feel like I am contributing to their preschool/grade school that way since they earn free books for the class that way too.

4.  DVDs and Books  I love movies and I love books and I do love owning my favorites, BUT I already have quite a collection from my days as a spend-thrift, many of which I have not read or watched.  My kids just want to watch the same old Disney films over and over and we get some as gifts sometimes.  Also, we have cable and so they have a lot of options.  We use the library a lot, and I have recently started going online and getting books that I want to read held, so all I have to do is go and pick them up when they are ready.  Someday I would like to be able to actually sit down with the husband and watch a movie (I haven't seen ANYTHING in the last few years) but right now we just don't have the time.  We are so behind that it won't matter if we are checking movies from the library or watching them on cable, they will still be new to us!

Next Post:  Some of my latest freebies!

5 Things You Can Stop Buying and Not Miss

I recently read an article on a similar idea and so I got to thinking about what I no longer buy, or rarely buy anymore, both to save money and to try to be a little more "green."  I encourage you to come up with your own list, you may be surprised at how much money you can save over time by cutting out certain items.

1.  Bottled water.  Not that I don't drink water in a bottle, I just don't buy it at the store.  In the past I have bought a case (on sale) to keep on hand (I have some in the garage for "emergencies") but we save the bottles, wash them and refill them with, yes, tap water.  I also have some nicer reusable bottles that we use regularly but I always have about a half dozen of the disposable kind in the fridge, ready to grab as we run out the door.  If you can't stand the taste of your local water, invest in a filtered pitcher to keep in your refrigerator; we have a Pur one that we refill several times a day.  (My family drinks a lot of water, which saves on money...more on that later.)

2.  Paper Towels/Paper Napkins.  This is not something that I don't buy, I have just drastically reduced my use of paper products.  I still buy paper towels but maybe go through a roll a month, and with kids I need paper napkins, especially since I have to pack one in their school lunches each day.  But what I use instead when I can are cheap washcloths from the Dollar store, and since they come in all colors you can even color code them for various uses.  For example, I use the pastel ones to wipe faces, highchairs, counters and dinner messes, the dark purple ones have become cleaning cloths to wipe the floor.  Then I soak them all in a tub before doing laundry, so that they do not get sour and stinky between washes.  If you have a big stack of them you can use them just once before getting out a new one, so that helps to keep things sanitary.  They don't take up much room in the wash.  Now, if the dog makes a mess or something like that you better believe I get out the paper towels!  Another great item is microfiber cloths, they are great for dusting, work with a Swiffer instead of the store-bought pads, and usually last a long time.

3.  Plastic Baggies/Trashbags.  This is another item I still buy, but use much less often.  For school lunches I use plastic reusable containers with lids when I can, but I still keep some cheap baggies for some small items, or when I cannot fit all the containers in the lunchbox.  I reuse all of my big ziploc bags unless they had raw meat in them.  (The only exception is that I have larger ziploc bags that hold the smaller, individual meal sized chunks of raw meat that I freeze in freezer bags, those I label and reuse.)  I hardly ever buy the ziploc bags in the first place because my mother in law is wonderful about sending us home with a lot of leftovers whenever we come over for dinner, so sometimes the bags have only held dinner rolls.  We do also have to buy trashbags, but we make sure they are stuffed full before we put them out.  We save all of our grocery store bags, use them to line the bathroom/bedroom trashcans, but we also save the bigger shopping bags, some of which are large enough to hold the weekly trash and save a trashbag.  We are limited to 2 big bags a week and usually only put out one, otherwise I would love to be able to put out 10 little grocery store sacks (but I bet that's against the rules and we would get fined!).  Ziploc bags also really come in handy for organizing other things around the house (toys!) and trashbags are great for safely storing bigger things (like an unused car seat), so they are things that I always keep on hand, I just try not to waste them.

4.  Fabric Softener Sheets.   This is the kind of thing that I just ran out of and didn't buy for a while, then discovered I didn't miss them.   I do like them for reducing static in the winter, but otherwise I don't really see a difference.  If you insist on using fabric softener, I saw this tip online somewhere:  Empty a bottle of fabric softener in a tub and mix with twice as much water, cut in half cheap sponges and soak in solution.  When you put clothes in the dryer, wring out a sponge and throw it in.  This is supposed to double the number of uses per bottle.  Sounds like too much trouble to me...

5.  Cleaning Products  Of course, I do not mean ALL cleaning products, but you really don't need to buy that many.  I regularly purchase dishwashing soap, dw detergent, laundry detergent and toilet bowl cleaner, but I have tried my hand at using things like vinegar and baking soda for cleaning purposes.  Those "recipes" and tips are easy to find so I won't repeat them all here, but I have found them good for some uses, not so effective for others.  For example, I gave up on trying to clean a really dirty shower without busting out the Tilex.  And I get a lot of free samples in the mail for cleaning products, especially laundry detergent, so those help stretch the budget (see previous post for freebies).  Another thing  really like are Clorox or Lysol wipes, they come in handy for quickie bathroom cleaning, especially when company is coming, or for wiping down the house after sickness has been present (like wiping doorknobs and keyboards and the like).  Sometimes it pays to pay for convenience!

Coming soon:  Some other things you could probably cut out of your budget that you probably won't miss.

I Am Afraid to Look in My Compost Bin!

I had good intentions.  I recycle everything I can and try to reduce my use of plastics and excess packaging.  Composting seemed like a good idea.  Then I forgot all about it...

I got the idea for my compost bin from this link:
 http://dinnergarden.blogspot.com/2009/05/dinner-garden-learns-to-compost.html

Mine didn't look exactly like that, but I did use a plastic tote with a lid and I had my husband drill air holes on the side.  I had visions of an earthworm farm, and I did add a few.  I am sure they are quite dead now.  This picture is from June.

This is a blurry picture, but you get the idea.  I put down a layer of potting soil (since it was handy in my garage) and then layered kitchen scraps and strips of torn newspaper.  I did wait a week or so and put the results on my garden as "fertilizer".  I discovered that kitchen scraps, especially bigger peelings, really need to be small in order to compost well.  Also, bigger pieces of bread did not do well, they just turned blue and looked like rocks.  Guess that means that there was not enough moisture and I definitely did not stir it often.  Later I added more scraps, a bit more soil and a little bit of newspaper.  I think the last time I opened the lid was in July?  It is August now and the bin is buried under the rubble in the garage somewhere...

My kitchen scraps since then have gone in the garbage or down the disposal and edible scraps, like bread crusts, were once again given to the dog.  The garage seemed too away to walk with my coffee can of scraps.  And I was too lazy to cut all the bits up into manageable, compostable pieces.  And I got discouraged when the fruit flies and gnats would come out, so those are my excuses.

Hubby doesn't know it yet but I think I will have him dump the bin on my garden when I am sure I am done harvesting it and then we can start over.  Or maybe the bin gets hosed out and put away until Spring?  Yeah, that's it.  I am sure I will do better next year.

Clickin' For Cash: My Tried and True Sources

In a previous post I shared some websites that I go to frequently for free samples.  I love getting those freebies in the mail but it is also nice to be able to earn a little cash and/or bigger prizes from the comfort of your desk chair.

I have signed up with scores of those websites that promise cash for doing surveys or for reading their ads, and most of them did not make the cut with me.  After a while I stop even looking at them and the emails go away.  Rather than listing those that were a waste of my time, I am going to tell you about the few that I thought were worth my time.  These are ones whose emails I look for daily and spend a few minutes each day completing them so that I can then delete them.  If I can't get them done right away I try to flag them so that they don't get buried in my mail.

http://www.mypoints.com/  My Points sends me several emails a day with ads, deals and occasional surveys.  What I like about this program is that I can do a block of them at once, just click on each ad to earn 5 points.  If I qualify for a survey I might get 50 points, otherwise I get 10.  If I go through their website to shop I earn points per dollar spent and they have a wide variety of retailers to choose from.  If I ever want to participate in any of their offers (such as join Netflix or a book club for bonus points) I can but I still get 5 points just for reading the email.  Then I delete them.  They also have links for coupons (coupons.com and smartsource.com) so that I can get points for printing off grocery coupons.  Even without actually completing their offers and rarely shopping online, I am able to get a couple of gift cards a year.  Over the years I have gotten gift cards for CVS, Olive Garden/Red Lobster and Target.  Never any ads for embarassing pharmaceuticals or anything like that.  If you have any interest in joining, send me your name and email so that I can "refer" you--I get points for that!

http://www.e-rewards.com/  This survey site rewards you with a few cents when you don't qualify or a few dollars if you do qualify for the survey, but it is easy to work through.  Your "money" actually accumulates in an account that you can put towards your U-Promise account, if you have one of those.  Otherwise, don't bother.

http://www.surveysavvy.com/  These surveys are hard to qualify for, but I have earned a little from them.  They also have a referral program, so you can earn more that way.  They are typical of most of these survey sites where the qualifying questions are so extensive you get annoyed when they tell you "sorry" but you don't qualify for the actual survey!

http://www.ncponline.com/  This is the National Consumer Panel, formerly known as the Nielsen Panel.  I have been doing this for several years and, after accumulating enough points, I have ordered prizes from their online catalog, mainly toys for my children, but they also have small electrics, electronics, things like that.  They send you a scanner to record all of your household purchases.  I mainly scan my groceries each week, although you are supposed to record all your purchases from all retailers, even online shopping or buying gas for your car.  I transmit my purchases each week and answer whatever surveys are waiting for me.  This one does take a little more time, but I have made it a habit to at least scan my weekly groceries and to transmit each Saturday morning so that I don't forget.  It is not difficult.  I also have been on "select" panels, I am currently on one where I record any prescriptions that I fill each week, and I get extra points for that.

http://www.pineconeresearch.com/  My husband did this a few years ago, when they paid $5 per survey.  They currently only pay $3 per survey, but now they offer to send you your money via paypal, so that makes it a little more convenient.  I have been doing this for a few months, probably one survey per week, and I also tested a food product that they sent me, which is kind of fun.

http://www.bzzagent.com/  I became a bzz agent last year and have gotten several products to try and share with friends.  After trying a product, you are then expected to "buzz" about it-- writing a review, posting on facebook, blogging, sharing with friends, etc.  I have gotten Aveeno baby shampoo, diaper cream, Claritin chewable tablets, Covergirl makeup and L'Oreal eye cream from them.  Unfortunately, I have missed a few campaigns because you have to very regularly visit their site to complete surveys to qualify, but I am glad to have participated in those few campaigns. Very easy!

http://www.houseparty.com/  This has been the most fun way I have heard of to get free stuff!  I signed up  to participate last year but never got chosen to host a house party until this spring.  You really have to act quickly when they start taking applications and then you have to jump on it when you are chosen or your spot will get taken.  What they do is send you free products and gifts to host a party for your friends in which you share a new product.  Many of the parties have a theme or else you can create your own.  I have done a Sandwich Thins party (free bread, grocery bags, recipe cards and magnetic grocery lists that I used in during a baby shower that I hosted), a ConAgra "Child Hunger Ends Here" party where the guests participate in a food drive and (my favorite) a Red Baron Pan Pizza and Pan Pasta Party, complete with red checkered table cloth, candle and cheese shaker.  For that last one the Schwan guy delivered frozen pizza and pasta to my door, usually they send you free coupons.  After the party you and your guests fill out surveys.  On the website guests upload pictures and share their party experiences.  There have also been many parties that my family would have liked but I missed out on, like the Shrek/McDonald's one and several toy manufacturers.  This fall there is one for Hasbro/Clone Wars that I have applied for--fingers crossed!

Coming soon:  Mystery Shopping and Market Research

A Salad Bar for Deer?

This morning I took advantage of the slightly cooler weather to tend my very-neglected garden.  Something had eaten all my tomatoes and chewed the plant down to about half it's height a few weeks ago.  This morning I found proof of the culprit--DEER!

A perfect hoof-print right next to my carrots, whose tops have been nibbled down quite a bit.

And here is another picture of my garden, now that it has grown quite a bit.  Compare it to my previous post last month..yowza!

In spite of all that growth, no harvest yet.  I have lost one cucumber plant and 2 peppers.  The one pepper plant that lives has 2 big peppers but they are starting to turn black instead of red.  I have one zucchini that is about 6 inches long but I don't think it is done growing, otherwise I have a lot of squash flowers and watermelon flowers, a couple of flowers on my cucumber and a few green tomatoes.  In my strawberry patch where I planted a melon (I planted 2 packets, not sure which one took!) I have tons of flowers, so perhaps I will get something out of that.

Lessons learned so far:  raised beds are so much better, not just for looks but for watering and tending the plants.  It is hard to keep the weeds out when the yard tries to take back it's territory.  Second lesson would be that you really do need to give these squash and melon plants a lot of room, it is amazing how they spread.  It is hard to see where one plant ends and the other variety begins.

Will keep you posted on my eventual harvest, now I just need those pesky deer to go elsewhere!

I Love a Freebie!

Just thought I would share with you some of my latest freebies. Every day I get an email newsletter from www.shop4freebies.com, with links for nationwide offers. It definitely pays to sign up quickly, usually the manufacturers have a limited quantity and when they run out, that's that. Sometimes you print off your own coupon for an item, I have gotten free fast food items many times that way.  Many are regional offers that won't work in your area, but there are still a LOT of great freebies on that site.

Many of the offers listed in that newsletter can also be found directly at www.walmart.com.  Lots of great freebies on the Walmart website. Another good one is Start Sampling (http://www.startsampling.com/).  But what I really like about the shop4freebies daily email is that it reminds me to check out their deals of the day each and every day as I read my email, I don't have to remember to go to the walmart site or other favorite sites.

I think my mail carrier might have just saved all these up to deliver in one day, but this is what I got Friday in the mail--Aveeno coupons, a sample of Eucerin lotion, Zantac and a sample of instant Via coffee from Starbucks.

Then yesterday I had another stack of boxes from Walmart.com on my mailbox.  I got a sample of Purina One dog food, Purina One cat food (both with coupons), a package of dog treats from Three Dog Bakery and a sample of Caress body wash.

I also get a lot of my freebies from Facebook, including this DaVinci pasta that arrived today. I had to "like" them on Facebook, then sent an email asking for the free sample and providing my address. It is a full sized box with some recipe cards (unfortunately there were no coupons, too).

Another great resource is the Penny Pinchin' Mom on Facebook (or her website is http://www.pennypinchinmom.com/) and she posts many deals every single day.  She also does coupon matchups for various stores, where she lists the sale items and links to available coupons so that you get the item for the lowest possible price.  I use her every week when I go grocery shopping and save a bundle.

Playing the coupon game is another great way to get free or almost free items, but what I like about these items above is that they were totally free, delivered to my door, and I didn't even have to use a stamp or any gas to go get them myself.  Yay!

Backyard Fun

We have been enjoying some free activities in the backyard--sidewalk chalk, bug catching, baby pool swimming, sandbox digging and of course...WATER TOYS! Since Nathan has a June birthday he has been fortunate to get gifts that can be used all summer long--Super Soakers, water guns, slip 'n' slide and several assorted sprinklers. Here are some pictures from our backyard adventures.









And our faithful companion enjoys a little extra attention while we are all outside together.

My Victory Garden

Last year I finally got my husband to make me a small raised bed for vegetable gardening. We already have a bed for the strawberry plants and we usually do a tomato plant or two, along with some perennial herbs. Last year we had a pretty good crop of tomatoes, cucumbers and yellow squash. The peppers did not do so well, but that was okay since my kids won't eat them. We had more than enough of the other items, I had to give them away! But this year I wanted to expand.

This spring we were given 4 different tomato plants from relatives and several squash plants from a neighbor. The rain kept delaying my planting, but I finally got my tomatoes in the ground, along with a pepper plant and a zucchini plant (and a cucumber that has since died, so a squash is in it's place), all in my raised bed. I also had some old seeds that I never planted (actually, some are from 2007) and so I planted carrots from seed. Surprisingly, they came up!



Since my "viney" plants took up so much room and we have a large backyard, I got my husband to till a piece of the yard so that I could plant more. Rain delayed my planting several more times, but I finally got the remainder of my squash plants in the ground, along with a couple other varieties of store bought squash, peppers and a cherry tomato plant. I also found a 75% off sale on spring bulbs, so I picked up some yellow onions and garlic bulbs and planted a row of each. I figure if they don't come up I am only out 49 cents! I also used some of my old seeds and planted a row of broccoli, too late in the season but again, I am not out much if they fail.

Looks like the plants that are doing the best are the ones in the raised bed, the ones in the ground have had too much rain, I think. And the dog has walked through there a few times, before I got my "fence" up. I recycled some black metal poles that had been part of a portable clothes "wardrobe" that broke, with twine. It won't keep out the critters but hopefully it will keep out the dog.




The zucchini is doing great, I have a few flowers on my squash, and there are small tomatoes and flowers on my tomato plants in the raised bed. I hope for a bumper crop!

Happy Birthday, Nathan!

Sorry I have neglected you, blog, but we have been super busy the last few weeks, especially since we had a big party for our now *6* year old son last Saturday. Today is his real birthday, how well I remember going to the hospital bright and early 6 years ago today to have him (it was a planned c-section). I remember thinking that he was so perfect, 7 lbs 11 oz of sweetness. And a good baby, too.

In keeping with my theme of frugality I will share with you how I threw a party for about 30 kids (plus parents) without breaking the bank. Nathan wanted a backyard party, but I honestly didn't want the stress of a lot of people in my too-small house, plus if it rains you are in trouble. We can have water-fun in the backyard another time. I rented some classrooms in my parish's now empty school (closed last year), so I consider that a charitable contribution to a worthier cause than say, Chuck E. Cheese. I was also able to borrow carnival games from the church--bean bag toss, bowling, ducks for a duck pond, fishing game, ring toss--although we did buy a lollipop tree also. I also considered some sort of cake walk and maybe an obstacle course but we ended up not doing those, I had to draw the line somewhere, I was worried about running out of time to decorate and set up. I was glad that we had enough space to invite the whole kindergarten class (I believe 8 came) plus other friends from playgroups and preschool and family, of course.

I shopped around for a couple of months leading up to the party, looking for deals. I found carnival game prizes and craft kits at party supply stores on the clearance racks, plus shopped the clearance category at http://www.orientaltradingco.com/ (with free shipping code, of course). For food I got great deals on hotdogs (coupons!), chips, pop (79 cent 2-liters), juice boxes, buns (bakery outlet), etc. so I did not spend a lot on them. I did buy some things at the dollar store like colorful buckets, tablecloths, condiment dispensers, just to make it more festive. I already had a hot dog rotisserie and my mother came with a popcorn popper to make fresh popcorn. My mother in law did a great job making cupcakes that looked like popcorn in cups, see pic at the top. I bought a roll of tickets so that the kids could pretend to "spend" their tickets on the games and food.

I was surprised at how well it turned out, the kids really enjoyed the crafts and went around and around to the games, getting prize after prize. I had over 400 prizes, plus stickers and lollipops, so they made out pretty well!

Since most of the parents stayed, I had a lot of helpers to man the carnival games, which made it go much more smoothly. And I think they liked hanging out and chatting, too. The older children loved being "carnies", especially for the fishing game, which was the most popular game.

Best of all were the memories made that day. I will never forget the look on Nathan's face as he stood behind the table with cupcakes while we sang "Happy Birthday" to him. Priceless.

Waste Not, Want Not

In my efforts to reduce clutter and save money, I have discovered that I have a lot of unused products around my home, especially personal care and cleaning products. It has become my mission in life to use these products up!

You know how you buy a brand of toothpaste because it is on sale and then you decide you don't like the way it tastes so you buy another tube the next time you go to the store? Then the first tube just sits in your cabinet unused, sometimes for quite a while. Well, I have been trying not to be so wasteful for the last year or so and have found a bounty of that sort of thing. The other thing I have done, with our drastically reduced budget, is to just plain not buy anything at all unless absolutely necessary. If I have anything at all in the cabinet/closet that can get used up, we use that first and then I shop around for a sale/coupons for the needed item.

I was particularly proud of myself for using up quite a few of my free samples/trial sized beauty and personal care products. I have a whole tub of things that I am working through: shampoo, lotions, body wash, toothpaste, shoe shine kits, dental floss, lots of makeup. I used to buy department store cosmetics and get the "free gift" but I rarely use the products. When I had a garage sale last year I had a whole box of these items (brand names, unopened) that I marked 25 cents--they went fast! I decided that we will probably not be taking any trips anytime soon, so why not use all these up? While I still insist on purchasing my preferred shampoo/conditioner and I have had to buy soap (everything on sale with coupons, of course) I am getting a lot of mileage out of facial cleansers, lotions, trial sized deodorants and cosmetics.

In my kitchen I have been cleaning out the backs of the cabinets, looking for forgotten cake mixes and canned goods. How many times have I had to throw food away because it expired? One of my favorite websites for dinner ideas is www.allrecipes.com because I can type in ingredients to find recipes, then I look through them to find one that has ingredients I already have on hand. I have found quite a few good recipes this way!

I have saved so much money using up all these old products and free samples and I have found several websites where I can get more! I almost always get a product that I like and they are all free! I like Start Sampling (www.startsampling.com) and www.walmart.com and my favorite is one that sends me a daily email with deals, www.shop4freebies.com. This last one has some of the same samples that you see on the other sites but also mentions deals that may be available in your area, like when chain restaurants have events (like a free meal on Mother's Day).

On Facebook, you can "like" a product and they will either send it to you via mail or let you print a coupon. I have gotten a lot of things this way, including Sunchips, Kraft mac 'n cheese, Einstein Bros bagels, etc.

Next post will be how to get more free stuff...

So, what did I lose and what did I find?

It occurred to me after my last post that I didn't properly explain my blog's title. I don't want to get all philosophical and blog about losing myself and rediscovering the "new me," although once a person becomes a MOM, a slave to greedy little children, a person who now wipes bottoms for a living (doesn't pay much, by the way) it goes without saying that you become a different person. And I may blog about that later but I am afraid I have little to offer others relating to that topic, since the "new me" is still waiting to be found.

What I have found is toothpaste, clothes that don't fit, picture frames without pictures, free samples, nice shoes, craft supplies for crafts that no longer hold my interest, seed packets from years past, Christmas gifts not given, books, cleaning products, decorations, cat toys, candles and Halloween costumes. While I am not ready to go on a television show about hoarders, I do recognize that I have too much stuff. Fortunately for me a lot of my stuff is pretty nice, nice enough to re-sell, although I cringe at how much money I wasted on things in my former life. I definitely used to shop a lot, although I have always bought on sale. I used to work in retail, so there were just too any opportunities for bargains and I always had a good "gift stash" of deals that came in handy for holidays and birthdays and baby and wedding showers. But when I think of all the money I could have saved...

First thing I did when I quit my full time job years ago to stay home with my son was sell my most profitable items on ebay. I even opened my own ebay store. Problem with that is you quickly run out of things to sell and the few unpleasant experiences you have with "crazies" tend to discourage you. It is also very time consuming. So, while I still have my ebay store, it has not been a good source of income for some time now.

Garage sales are a good way to get rid of items, but where I live people want a deal, so even if you have unworn clothing with tags still on they might not give you what you think is fair. And garage sales are a lot of work, especially if you have small children underfoot, and the weather can really be a factor. I have had good luck selling baby and children's items through my mothers of twins club. We have a big sale twice a year and I have done it several times. It helps to volunteer to help set up and work the sale; you can get a good idea of how to price your items, you get first pick after setup to shop and you get a lower percentage taken out of your sales for the club.

I have also done consignment shops (not very profitable) and just plain given items away. I give to charities pretty regularly, since I don't have the disposable income right now to give cash donations I am glad I can give things to others who can use them. Of course, I keep my receipts for tax purposes!

But what I feel best about is my resourcefulness in finding new uses for things that I find around the house. Whether the item becomes a new gift for someone else or gets used in a new way, I feel almost as good as I would have if I had gotten to buy something new from the store. (Ah, that "shopper's high" when you get a bargain!) My little way of "saving the planet."

More about that in my next post...

What is this blog about? (And why would anyone want to read it?)

This blog is all about my adventures in making and saving money. An alternate title could have been "20 Dollars", as it seems I tend to earn money $20 at a time. Believe me, it has been slow going but I have learned a lot along the way and want to share with you what has worked for me and what has not worked. Saving time is another factor when deciding on a money making "scheme" and I have certainly wasted enough of my precious time on things that didn't pan out. Maybe I can save someone the trouble.

Who am I? I am a stay-at-home mom of 3 young children (actually I have a very part time job outside the home) who has been trying to justify staying home and living off of one (and 1/4) income while my kids are young. I clip coupons, budget, shop sales, garden, sell on ebay, sell at garage sales, recycle, reduce, reuse, you-name-it.

In future posts I hope to post hints about saving money, reducing debt and earning some cash along the way. Please feel free to share your thoughts!